While much of the wedding day’s attention is often focused on one partner, it’s important to remember that both people getting married play an essential role in setting the tone, keeping things running smoothly, and soaking in each moment. If you’re preparing for your big day as a groom in your wedding, here are a few practical tips to help you feel confident, look sharp, and be fully present from start to finish. 

Don’t Change Your Grooming Routine

Tempted to try a new haircut, beard trim, or skincare product the week of your wedding? Don’t. Stick to what you know works for you. A last-minute change could lead to an unexpected breakout, irritation, or a cut you don’t love. Keep things consistent and play it safe—you want to feel like your best, most comfortable self when you walk down the aisle.  

Get Plenty of Sleep the Night Before  

A good night’s rest is key to looking and feeling your best. Late-night nerves or a hangover from the night before can leave you feeling tired and foggy. Try to wind down the night before and prioritize sleep—you’ll thank yourself when the cameras are rolling and the emotions are high. 

Be On Time

One of the best things you can do for your partner and your wedding team is to show up on time. Whether it’s to the venue, your first look, or the ceremony itself, punctuality shows respect and helps keep the day running on schedule. Pro tip: build in plenty of buffer time for getting dressed and traveling to the venue.  

Know Your Responsibilities

From remembering the rings to making sure your wedding party is where it needs to be, it’s essential to know what’s expected of you. Review the timeline ahead of time and check in with your wedding planner, coordinator, or partner so you’re clear on your duties and can help things flow smoothly.  

Know How to Tie Your Tie (or Bowtie)

If you’re wearing a tie or bow tie, practice tying it beforehand—or better yet, learn how to do it well in advance. The last thing you want is to be Googling “how to tie a bowtie” while your photographer is waiting. If someone else in your group is a pro, ensure they’re prepared to assist the rest of the crew as well.  

Communicate with Your Wedding Party

Make sure your wedding party members know what time to arrive, what to wear, and what their roles are throughout the day. Whether you send a group message the night before or hand out a printed schedule, a little communication goes a long way in preventing confusion and keeping things stress-free.  

Take Your Phone Out of Your Pocket

This one’s simple but essential—empty your pockets, especially your phone, before photos and the ceremony. A bulky outline or ringing phone can be distracting in pictures and moments. Leave it in your getting-ready suite or hand it off to someone else so you can be fully present.  

Final Thoughts

Your wedding day is about celebrating love and the start of a new chapter. By showing up prepared, staying relaxed, and focusing on the moment, you’ll not only support your partner—you’ll also create memories that last a lifetime.  

Getting married at The Ellis? Our team is always here to help make your experience seamless from start to finish. Let us know how we can support you on your big day!